In the last couple of weeks there were so many people close to me that if they did not pass away this life then are sick or close to do so. The reality s that besides the younger people that passed on, I am personally at an age where all the older people I know are starting to pass on.

I just felt the urge to write today my thoughts because this has been in min mind for a while since my parents have reached the age where they could move on any time. This of course brings me feelings of sadness, especially because I am physically far from them.

I just phoned a friend and she was experiencing the loss of someone that was physically far from them. She told me we got “bad news”. And I agree with her that it is a bad news when you lose someone. I have another friend flying this week to see her mom in ICU.

We live so attached to things and people that when we lose them we are so sad and we call it “bad news”. And we have all the right to be sad. I am not saying you should not be sad, you should grieve every loss.  The same we grieve for any other loss,  being a home, a business, the end of a friendship, a divorce, moving countries or any other matter.

In the case of someone passing on, I must be honest I am sad because of myself and not really because of the person passing on. My rational mind tells me that they are gone forever, and I will never experience their friendship, talking to them or hugging them. So I will go through photos or things that will remind me of them, and even live in the past for a while remembering every single time I had spent with them.

But if I look at the bigger picture I believe that everything is energy. Everything that surrounds us including ourselves, our bodies and our spirits is energy. Energy never disappears it just change forms. So when the body dies, the body does not disappear (except that we bury it) it just changes forms, and our spirit does not disappear it changes form also. I also believe that we are all connected, we are one. You probably experienced many times this: you think of someone that day and that person calls you back. We call it telepathy, but in reality we are all one, when you think of something you are sending a vibration and the other person is picking it up.

I deviated a bit from what I wanted to say, but I believe we are all one, and although when people pass on we cannot be together physically, we can be in contact with them. They can still hear us, because hearing does not imply hearing a voice. They can hear your thoughts and your vibration. You can still be in contact with them.

The point of writing this is just to reflect that even though our loved ones are passing on, we will still be in touch with them. When we are happy they will be happy, and when we are sad they will be sad. There has been enough near death experiences to prove that people do not just disappear from this universe. They continue being and they experience a kind of peace that we do not experience on this Earth.

I can tell you of my experience when my younger sister passed  almost 12 years ago from a painful illness. I travelled to see my sister  for the weekend because I wanted to go and see a healer for her. No one wanted to go to the healer and I was prepared to travel for the weekend to do that ( I was living overseas). When I arrived and saw her I knew why nobody wanted to see a healer.  Her physical body had deteriorated so much she look like a 60 year old person instead of 30.  I was supposed to be there for 4 days and she actually passed on during that weekend and I believed that she hold on until I arrived there.

The night prior to her death my father was sleeping in the bedroom that my sister and I shared when growing up. My father does not believe in this, and if you still talk to him will not believe in this things, but he told me he saw his diseased mother coming into the room like if she came to fetch my sister. That night  I also had a dream and saw my sister closing her eyes. The next morning she was taken to hospital and by 9 o’clock that night she was gone. The moment she passed on she had a smile on her  face. That reflected the peace she was feeling after months of pain. By the way at the same time she passed on her 4 year old son who was sleeping woke up and said he could not sleep. I do believe my sister went to speak to him.

On the way to her funeral, we were waiting at the toll gate to pay and the car next to us got hit from behind and it turned upside down. Nobody got badly hurt. But  in that car there was am ex girlfriend of my sister who had not behaved nicely with my sister and they had not had contact for a while.  I do believe the accident was caused by my sister which did not want her ex girlfriend at the funeral. Too much coincidence, and I do not believe in coincidence.

Like this there are so many other stories that prove that we are still in contact with people that pass on, and that we should not be sad when someone passes on. It is the cycle of life and whoever passes on has finished his tasks that he was supposed to do.

It is so big this subject that is sometimes difficult to understand and needs to be studied more in depth, but reality is that yes you have the right to grief, but also know that you can be in contact with your loved ones, whenever you want to, and you should not stress about it. It is the cycle of life.

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