Personal journey – Is my life perfect?
ByI have been involved in personal development for many years, reading self help books since I was a teenager. I always dreamt of becoming a public speaker and helping people.
One of the obstacles I had to overcome to be a coach was to accept that my life does not need to be perfect before I can coach someone else. This belief was also introduced by people that surrounded me that believed I could never be a coach/ public speaker if I did not sort out my life first.
Since then I have learned that this statement is a myth. My life will never be perfect. Or perhaps depending on your beliefs my life is perfect because I am where I am supposed to be and therefore everybody’s life is perfect.
What I meant above is that my life will always have challenges. It is through the challenges that we learn. My personal belief is that we come here to learn and it would be pointless to stay around if we are perfect and not learning.
In my coaching practice I have often found that my clients challenges are also mine. They are a mirror of my life, and the more I coach them the more I learn myself.
I decided to write this post so that I make clear to everybody out there that my life is not perfect and it will never be. In fact this year has been one of the most difficult ones, and the previous years have not been easy either. In this article I wanted to commit to share with you my personal journey and how I will be overcoming different challenges I have. The more challenges the more powerful we become.
I know it is easier said than done but I think the important point is to constantly remind us what we are learning. Sometimes when we are a bit down, or worried about something we can get lost in our problem and forget all the good things we learned in life. Oh well, we live and learn.
I would love to hear your thoughts on this. Enjoy your journey.
Andrea Kalaydjian, is a system analyst with more than 20 years experience in the IT field and a New Insight Certified life coach
Born in Argentina, where she studied and started her career, she has also worked in the UK, USA and South Africa where she currently lives....
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